How to Kick Scarcity to the Curb

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Are you a newly awakened dreamer who wants to change the world? Have you struggled with a lack of clients and social support from family and friends?

I know how that feels.

Sometimes I let it get to me. Other times I ask myself, “Am I living in scarcity or abundance?”

What do these concepts mean to you?

On the surface, scarcity means there is a lack of something compared to the demand.

At a deeper level, it’s a learned mindset full of limiting beliefs often passed down by prior experiences. If there is risk involved, scarcity will jump in your head and talk you out of it.

Don’t leave corporate.
Don’t follow you passions.
Don’t go into coaching full time.

As an entrepreneur or dreamer, it means you are avoiding risk. You fear there is a lack of something. You are holding back and playing small in order to protect yourself. But you’re not fully living, are you?

Scarcity, much like resistance, wants you to play life extremely safe. Unfortunately, this seems to be a popular choice. There are many influences present. They range from negative news stories on mass media to the influences of those who have truly struggled in life.

So what is the alternative?

Here are some strategies to help move away from scarcity when building your business and following your dream.

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The Big Three that Work for Me

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Boom! What a year so far. High five, hugs, and knuckles! I’m having fun and making big strides on my Hero’s Journey. How is the year turning out for you?

I’m always looking to learn something new and this year is no different. I like to pause and reflect each quarter to recognize and acknowledge strategies that are working for me.

Check out the big 3 I’m digging this year:

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Free Wine…Please?

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Life can be awesome. It can also punch you in the gut when you least expect it.

But one thing is for certain, if you are willing, there are opportunities to learn how to improve your life. In this post, the focus is on handling rejection and how you can use it to your advantage.

When asking for what you want, it’s important to be crystal clear. Be specific with your request. But, what if you get rejected? No worries. I’ve got you covered.

Here are three ways to improve how you approach and handle rejection.

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Busted! Are You Taking Too Much Action?

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“Dude! Take some action and get some blood in the game.” Have you heard that before?

Have you taken tons of action, yet you still haven’t gotten anywhere with your dreams?

What if taking too much action is not good for you? What if it’s holding you back from accomplishing your goals?

Let’s examine two types of action and see which one fits into your routine.

Passive Action

I love me some passive action. It involves consuming content. Reading blogs. Listening to podcasts. Watching webinars. Buying books. All cool things I love to do and I’ve done a lot of. I bet you love passive action as well. Humans are curious creatures, so we’re naturals at it.

Hey now, passive action can’t have all the fun. There is another type of action that is super rare. It’s not as easy to accomplish. In fact, it involves fear, so lots of people and coaches avoid it.

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Bring It On Drama; I’m Not Your Momma

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Drama, drama, drama.

So you have some drama in your life? 

Sometimes you run into it.  Sometimes you create it.  Sometimes you attract it.  Either way, it can be no fun to experience.

The good news is there are many options to manage how you deal with drama.  

For starters, you could punch an alien.  

Then again that has some negative side effects, and there is the whole innocent extraterrestrial aspect. Who would want to hurt E.T.?

Even better advice would be to read and apply the concepts in this blog post.  I’ll share a few strategies you can put into practice right away to help manage the drama in your life.

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